実は自信がない人ほど人生や転職がうまくいく!?客観性を持った自信が重要

30代の転職

どういう人たちが夢を叶えられるのか。
自分の夢を叶えられない人は実は自信がある人で、自信がない人の方が夢を叶える可能性が高いという驚きの研究結果があります。

たった一言や3つくらいの質問をすることで、将来の自分や相手の本音を見抜くことができるというのです。
では、どのような質問の回答が自分の人生がうまくいくかそうではないかを判断することができるのか、詳細をお伝えしていきます。

スポンサーリンク

あなたは自分に自信がありますか

今あなたがやっているビジネスで成功する自信はありますか?という質問です。
起業家や自己啓発の専門家は自身があるほうが成功するに決まっていると答えるに決まています。

しかし、研究の結果としましては、自信がないと答えた人の方が人生やビジネスを成功させる可能性が高いというのです。

どういうことかと申し上げますと、成功したいのであれば自信はいらない、むしろ害になるという研究結果があります。

自信を持てと自己啓発のセミナーでは必ず言われます。短期的には気分がよくなるのでそれでよいでしょう。
しかし、そこで満足して行動をせずに結果が出ないという真実がわかっています。

自信と能力の相関性は、ほぼ無関係であるという結果もわかっています。

自信がある人は信用できるか

自信がある人は信用できないという研究結果が出ています。
18歳の複数の自信があると答えた学生のその後の5年間を追跡して調べた結果、周りから嘘つきであると思われたり、信用できないと思われていることが多いという結果に至りました。

この結果から自信を持っている人は客観性を失っているということがわかっています。
自分にとって都合のよいように事実を考えてしまいすので、成長もなく成功することもできないのです。

客観性を持った自信が正しい

自分は能力が足りないからもっと頑張って高めなければならないと考える自信のない方が将来成功します。
自信がある方は自分は結果を出している、特に直すものはないと考えているので、今は良くても自分を客観視できない為に問題が起こるとすぐに潰れてしまいます。

自信がある方はリスクを取って勝負ができますので、短期的には成功する可能性があります。短期的に成功しても長期的に見たときは、客観性を持っていないために自分を変えようといなかったり、改善ができずに沈没してしまうことがあります。

その一方で自信の低さは客観性を持ち、低いリスクで一歩一歩着実に能力を高めていけるので、リスクをあまりとらない分時間はかかりますが、成功する可能性が高くなるのです。

注意点としては、自信のない方は自分を高める為に努力を継続して行わなければならないことです。
時間がかかる分、途中で挫折してしまい結果が出せなくなることが最大のリスクとなります。

継続は力なりです。

最後に

転職についても、自信満々で面接を向かえても打ちのめされてしまうことがあります。
自信があるかたこそ、自分はどんな人間なのか、足りていないところはどんなところなのかを客観的に見つめ直してください。

完璧な人はいませんので、どうしてもわからない場合は親友に相談するとよいでしょう。
そこで得られた貴重な意見を基に少しずつ自分を改善していくことが、人生や転職活動をより成功へと導くきっかけとなるでしょう。

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