人生を本気で変えることができる3つの方法!転職もそのひとつである!

30代の転職

今あなたが人生で成功して充実している、ビジネスで成功している、というのであれば、このページを閉じてください。
しかし、あなたが今の自分の生き方に疑問を感じていたり、この先どうしようか悩んでいるのであれば、ぜひこの記事を参考にしてください。

今回お伝えする内容はある有名なコンサルタントや講演家の話を基に作成しています。
簡単そうで難しい内容でもありますが、この3つの方法は私自身が経験したことがある内容であり、実践すれば人生を変えるための絶大な効果が期待できる内容であると思いましたので記事にしてみました。

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①住む場所を変える

家を購入してしまった方にはお勧めできませんが、賃貸に住んでいたり実家に住んでいる方はすぐに住む場所を変えてください。
ただ住む場所を変えればよいというものではありません。
できれば、自分自身の収入で家賃の支払いが可能である最高額の物件に引っ越してください。
更に言うとある程度富裕層がいる地域が望ましいです。

なぜかというと、人は生活している環境に大きく影響されるからです。
当たり前のことを言っていますが、普段の生活ではこのような発想自体が生まれないでしょう。

私自身も家賃3万円のボロアパートに住んでいる時期がありました。
このアパートに住んでいる住人はこちらが挨拶しても無視は当たり前、共有スペースは常に汚れて荒れ果てている、夜はどんちゃん騒ぎでうるさいなどは当たり前でした。
それが嫌になり、閑静な住宅街の少し高めのマンションへ引っ越ししました。

そこで驚愕だったのが、小学生が私よりも先に挨拶をしてくることです。住んでいる方の身なりも明らかに違いました。
意外と多くの方がグレードを上げた住居への引っ越しをした時に経験することのようです。

さらに住んでいる方が皆楽しそうに生活をしている姿を見て、自分もそうなろうとポジティブになれた記憶があります。
ネガティブな場所から離れて、ポジティブな場所へ住む場所を変えるだけで本当に意識が変わりますよ。

②仕事を変える

全く何を言っているのか意味不明ですよね。転職や起業することは人生を大きく変えることくらい誰でもわかります。

・サラリーマンの方、ただ稼ぐための手段でしかなく、楽しんで仕事をしていると自負していますか?
・公務員の方、公務員は安定だと今までは言われていますが、今後も果たしてそうなのでしょうか?
給料の上限も決められていますよね。先輩後輩関係のしがらみの中でずっと生きていくという方もいらっしゃると思います。
公務員は法律の決まった中でした発信ができないなどもあります。

小さい頃は誰しも楽しいことに夢中になったと思います。
社会人になっても自分が好きであること、楽しいことを仕事にしてはいかがでしょうか?

本当に好きなこと、楽しいと思えることでないと結果なんてでないと私は思います。
収入だけを考えて、人がやりたくないことを敢えて実践して好きでもないことに時間を費やしている人も多いわけです。

「仕事のモチベーションを上げる」という言葉はおかしいと思ったことはありませんか?
自己啓発のセミナーなどで無理やりモチベーションを上げようとしても、長く続かないですし楽しくないと思います。人によってはストレスになり、精神的に自分を追い詰めてしまうかもしれません。

自分が好きなことをして、楽しくやっている仕事であれば勝手にモチベーションが上がると思いませんか?これからは自分の好きなことで楽しく継続できる仕事を考えて選ぶべきなのです。
今の仕事がモチベーションを無理やり上げなければできない仕事であれば、自分の好きなことができる企業へ転職するべきだと思います。
幸いなことに年齢の壁を越えて、自分のやりたい好きな仕事ができる可能性が高い時代が来ているのです。

③付き合う人を変える

今あなたの周りにいる人を思い浮かべてください。
あなたが理想としている将来像を実現できますか?行動を縛られていることがあるのではないでしょうか?

今後10年、20年と先を見据えて考えてください。
今まで長く付き合っている方はほとんどの場合、あなたと同年収で同じ思考であると言われています。
要するに同レベルの人間同士で同じ輪の中で楽しく同じことをすることが最大の安心なのです。

仮に自分がやりたいことに挑戦したい、転職や独立をしたいと言ったところでそれを本当に心から応援してくれますか?
やめておいたほうがいい、考え直したほうがいいなど現状維持を進めてくる邪魔者が必ずいると思います。
全員とは言いませんが、実際に私の場合はいました。
それはなぜかと言えば、自分と同じ境遇の中にいる人が外に出ようとするのを不快に感じ、阻害しようとする心理が働くと考えられます。

そんな場所に居続けることはご自身の成長を妨げ、今以上に豊かになることはできませんから、勇気をもってその輪から出てみましょう。

◆まとめ

一番お勧めしたいのは③の付き合う人を変えることです。
もちろん学生時代の友人と縁を切るということではありません。
家族は縁を切っても切れませんから、絶対に無理なものは全てを受け入れるように努力しましょう。

一番よい方法は、自分の目標を達成するために必要なスキルがある方を探して、その方と過ごす時間を増やすことです。そして真剣に学ぶことです。

どのような人が最もよいかと言えば、もちろん自分が達成しようと思っていることですでに結果を出している人です。
結果を出している起業家やサラリーマンの優秀な技術者や営業マンがいらっしゃるのであれば、その方と積極的に会ってみてください。

自分のレベルより高い人と積極的にコミュニケーションを取り、様々なものをインプットし、しっかりとアウトプットして人生を激変させましょう。

インプットだけではノウハウコレクターのようになって結果は出ませんので、しっかりとアウトプットすることが最も重要であると思います。

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